10 Intense, Wild Sex Foreplay Tips, Ideas, and Techniques (Part 1)

Hey there fellow Pleasure seeker

Avoid getting stuck in a rut!

You may have realized that you and your partner have fallen into a predictable pattern when it comes to foreplay. To avoid this, I’m sharing 22 potent techniques, tips, ideas, and games that will ensure foreplay never becomes mundane for you or your partner

  1. Build Sexual Tension (Mental Foreplay)

While most people refer to it as “building sexual tension,” I like to refer to the process leading up to physical foreplay as “mental foreplay.” When you tease and lure your partner with thoughts of sweets and sensual pleasure that await him later, you are creating sexual tension. There are several quick and simple methods to implement this foreplay advice.

Begin With A Goodbye – The next time you say goodbye to your boyfriend, tell him that you will have a great surprise for him the next time you see him, and say it with a mischievous smile on your face so he knows what it is.

When he leaves for work in the morning, you could say this and then deliver him “the surprise” later in the evening. Or it can happen in a few days. The secret is to keep him curious and considering what might come next.

Text Your Man Some Dirty Suggestions About What Might Happen Later: 

Try texting your man some suggestive dirty texts when you aren’t around him. To keep your boyfriend guessing what’s in store for him later, make sure that your messages are subtle and even a mystery. Here are few instances:

  • I’m so horny right now and can’t wait till later!
  • I’m only preparing to blow your head later!
  • I’m so happy my flatmate won’t be here when you move out.I have an exciting surprise in store for you!
  • I’m getting wet just thinking about what I have planned for this evening.

This should give you some notion of how to create a sexual tension with your boyfriend before you even go close. Check out this guide to creating sexual tension for additional advice on mental foreplay.

  1. Tease him with your appearance

Men are highly visual creatures, and this fact is worth emphasizing. 

Just take a look at the thriving multi-billion dollar industry of pornography. It’s clear that visual stimulation plays a significant role in arousing men and fueling their desire for sex.

Understanding this, it becomes apparent that what you wear can have a profound impact on turning your man on and igniting his passion.

Now, I’m not suggesting that you go on a shopping spree at Victoria’s Secret and overhaul your entire wardrobe with expensive lingerie. However, it would be beneficial to have a couple of items in your closet that you can don when you want to captivate your man’s attention. Remember, guys are stimulated by what they see, so why not use this to your advantage?

In addition to your clothing choices, don’t underestimate the power of your hair and makeup. Experiment a little to figure out what hairstyle makes you look sexier – whether it’s wearing your hair down, in a ponytail, in a bun, or trying out a completely different style altogether. The same goes for your makeup. Discover if a particular lipstick enhances the allure of your lips or if a specific eye shadow makes your eyes sparkle.

It may all seem like common sense, but the truth is that many women overlook the potential of their appearance as a powerful tool for foreplay when trying to turn their man on. Embrace your physicality and use it to create an irresistible allure that will leave your man longing for more.

  1. Public Teasing

I understand that engaging in public play may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but allow me to explain…

The aim of public teasing as a foreplay idea is to arouse your man, not to engage in actual public sex or nudity. The beauty of this concept lies in its ability to build up sexual tension, which can make the subsequent intimate experience all the more exhilarating for both of you.

Here are a few tantalizing actions you can take during public teasing to amplify the sexual tension:

  • Gently rub and caress the inside of his leg.
  • Playfully pinch his bum.
  • Kiss him, but don’t overdo it—leave him yearning for more.
  • Whisper naughty thoughts in his ear, giving him a glimpse of what’s in store later.
  • Place your arm around him, creating an intimate connection.
  • “Accidentally” brush or touch his crotch from time to time, sending shivers down his spine.
  • Take his hand and guide it to your leg, teasingly inviting his touch.

Remember, the primary purpose of this foreplay idea is not to engage in public intercourse. It’s all about building up intense sexual anticipation, setting the stage for an incredible experience later on.

  1. Begin at the Bar

This foreplay concept is ideal for couples seeking to inject some excitement into their relationship if things have been feeling a bit stagnant lately.

While traditional foreplay typically involves physical touch and stimulation right before engaging in sexual activity, ‘Commence at the Bar’ offers a simple scenario to reignite the fun. You and your partner should plan a rendezvous at a bar. Upon arrival, both of you should act as if it’s your first date. He will order drinks, flirt with you, and attempt to woo you into going home with him.

He will kiss you, touch you, and remind you of the initial spark that brought you together.

Naturally, this may feel a bit silly, but that’s the intention. The goal is to loosen up and reminisce about the early stages of your relationship.

‘Begin at the Bar’ may not be your typical foreplay technique, but it can be a delightful way to infuse some excitement into your routine if used occasionally. Embrace the lightheartedness and enjoy the journey down memory lane, remembering what made you fall for each other in the first place.

  1. Touching Techniques for Intense foreplay

Touch is a powerful tool that can ignite desire, build anticipation, and enhance intimacy between you and your partner. How you touch your man during foreplay can make all the difference. Allow me to pose a few questions:

Do you initiate touch without any prompting or reason? 

Or do you wait for him to make the first move?

When engaging in intimate moments, do you actively explore various techniques such as rubbing, massaging, caressing, grabbing, and holding? 

Or do you simply rest your hands on his back?

These are pivotal questions that warrant your consideration. 

Most men appreciate a partner who can alternate between being assertive and receptive, offering a dynamic range of sensations and experiences.

Please bear this in mind when initiating foreplay or responding to his advances. There are countless ways to touch your man, each creating a distinct sensation. Here are a few ideas to stimulate your imagination:

  • Gently wrap your hands around his neck, pulling him in for a passionate kiss.
  • Explore by sliding your hands beneath his shirt, using your nails to trace tantalizing patterns along his back.
  • Playfully grab and pinch his posterior, igniting a surge of desire.
  • Pamper him with a soothing massage on his back, neck, and shoulders.
  • Tease him by delicately running your fingers along the inside of his leg, teasingly approaching his crotch.
  • Relieve his stress by massaging his scalp, running your fingers through his hair.
  • Surprise him with unexpected tickles to add an element of excitement.

Additionally, consider reciprocating the touch and caresses that you enjoy from your man. The allure intensifies when you combine your touch with seductive, dirty talk.

  1. Seduce him in the Shower

Surprising your man with a steamy shower encounter can ignite passion and set the stage for an unforgettable night of pleasure.

To embark on this enticing foreplay game, start by being incredibly flirty and teasing him before you both retire to bed. Just as you’re about to get cozy, suggest that your man takes a shower first, promising to dry him off afterward.

Once he steps into the shower, give him a minute or two before joining him. As you enter, take charge and start sensually washing his body. However, resist the temptation to engage in hand jobs or blow jobs while in the shower. Instead, let the anticipation build.

Pro Tip: The combination of soap and water creates an intensely pleasurable sensation on his cock. Focus on washing his cock, exploring the unique texture and heightened sensitivity.

And let’s not forget the drying off part! 

Ensure that you thoroughly dry him off afterward, savoring the intimate connection as you towel him gently.

When the time comes to transition from shower to the main event, he’ll be practically begging for your touch. To enhance the pleasure, consider incorporating techniques from the Blow Job Guide or Hand Job Guide on our page.

As always, open communication, consent, and mutual enjoyment are essential. Pay attention to your partner’s responses and adapt your techniques accordingly. 

  1. Kiss Your Man

Here are some quick tips for passionate kissing.

  • Don’t just use your lips when you kiss your partner. Use your tongue to gently massage their lips and tongue. It adds a different sensation and can make the kiss more enjoyable.
  • Every now and then, you can use your teeth to give a gentle nibble on their lips or tongue. Just remember not to bite too hard, just a light squeeze between your teeth.
  • Remember, kissing isn’t just limited to the lips. You can explore other areas too. Move from their lips to their cheek, then slowly make your way down to their neck and even their earlobes. Take your time and enjoy the journey.

That covers the essentials of kissing. For more in-depth guidance, I highly recommend delving into the dedicated kissing section where I expand further on this foreplay tip.

  1. Massage him

Massaging your man can be a great way to add some excitement to your intimate moments. It’s easy to do, and he’ll love it just as much as you do. Here’s a simple guide to getting started:

  • Have your man lie on his stomach, and then position yourself to sit on his bum with your legs on either side. Keep your palms open and gently glide them up and down his back, focusing on the muscles on the side of his spine. Remember to avoid putting pressure on his joints or bones.

Pro Tip: Using a little coconut oil can help your hands glide smoothly.

  • To avoid the massage becoming repetitive, try clenching your hand into a fist. Use your fist to softly press into his back muscles, moving it up and down slightly slower than when using your palms. Be gentle with your strokes—remember, it’s about giving him a soothing massage, not causing pain.
  • After trying out these techniques, move your hands towards his upper back, shoulders, and neck. Lightly squeeze different areas with your thumb and fingers.

That’s all there is to it! Giving your man a simple, relaxing massage while he’s lying down can be a wonderful way to connect. Remember to alternate between techniques to keep things interesting for both of you.

  1. Put on a show for him

Trust me, it can be a major turn-on for both of you because you’re showing him exactly how you like to be touched!

Remember, guys are visual creatures, so take advantage of that. Most men find it incredibly hot to see their partner getting off. So, the next time you’re in bed together, why not ask him if he’d like you to put on a little show? Chances are, he won’t say no!

Now, here are some ways to make your self-pleasure show even hotter:

  • Let him know that he can only watch until you finish. Tell him you enjoy teasing him and want to see him watching without touching. This kind of teasing will drive him crazy and make him jump at the chance to get involved when you finally give him permission.
  • Consider using some toys during your show. It can add an extra level of excitement for both of you. If you’re curious about using a vibrator or a dildo, I can give you some tips on how to use them effectively.
  • Let your man join in the fun! He can focus on your neck and breasts while you pleasure yourself, or he can use his fingers while you stimulate your clitoris. It’s all about exploring pleasure together.
  • To kick things off, you could try a seductive striptease, gradually revealing more of yourself as you build up to the self-pleasure show. It adds an element of anticipation and sets the mood.
  • Don’t forget to let him know how much you’re enjoying yourself. Talking in explicit detail about how much fun you’re having will make him extra horny and heighten the experience for both of you.

Now, I get it. Putting on a show like this can be a bit nerve-wracking if you’re not already super comfortable with each other. If you’re feeling a bit nervous, try dimming the lights or having a drink to help you relax and feel more at ease.

Remember, it’s all about exploring your desires and having a great time together. So, if you’re up for it, go ahead and give it a try! 

  1. Show him what gets you going

Here’s the deal: When you and your man are getting frisky, you’re gonna take control and show him exactly where and how you like to be touched. 

No need for complicated explanations or diagrams here, girl!

Instead, simply grab his hand and guide it to the right spots. You can even let him know the amount of pressure and speed that feels amazing for you. 

It’s all about showing him how to finger you, how to work that magic on your clit, how to give you a killer breast massage, or whatever you’re into.

I know it takes a little bit of confidence, but trust me, the rewards are so worth it. And don’t forget to praise him while he’s doing it! This way, he’ll learn exactly how to touch you, caress you, and please you to give you the ultimate satisfaction.

So, be bold, and show your man the way to pleasure town. With a little guidance and some positive reinforcement, he’ll become a pro at pleasing you in no time. Get ready for mind-blowing satisfaction, girl!

Alright, squad! 

We’ve just scratched the surface of intense, wild foreplay tips, ideas, techniques, and games in this epic article. But guess what? 

This is only Part 1, fam! So, brace yourselves because Part 2 is dropping soon on Kinky Dairies. Get ready to level up your intimate game with even more mind-blowing tricks. Don’t miss out, my peeps! 

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